Sunday, March 19, 2006

Rated R.... هتك عرض الاطفال في الاردن

كنت جالسا مع احد الزملاء و كعادتنا بدانا بالنم على كل من نعرفه، الى ان اتينا الى امل ... ولاننا بنم فلا بد ان نبدا
بذكر السيئات ونترك الحسنات ان وجدت للنهاية، وبما ان تلك البنت صديقة قديمة لصديقي فحاولت ان اتفادى التجريح، لكنني لم استطع ان امنع نفسي من القول
" يا زلمة هاي البنت فيها اشي غلط.... عندها مرض نفسي اخو فلاته، بيرسوناليتي ديس اوردر اكيد"
وقام صديقي بلفلفة الموضوع، لكن مع كل قعدة نميمة كنت اجيبله سيرتها انو هالبنت مش طبيعبية....امل بنت فيها ابو ٢٥ سنة، هادية شوي.. مؤدبة، لكنها عندما تتحدث مع شاب تنطر للارض و يهتز صوتها و تبتلع الكلمات و يصعب من الصعب فهمها..... ليس عن حياء، و لكن عن سبب اخر.... مؤسف جدا
" اسمع ابو الفرس، هاي و هي بنت كان خالها يتحركش فيها"
فقلت باستهجان "ايه، يلعن ابوه"
فاكمل صديقي كلامه بسرعة "عالطالعة و النازلة كان يسوي كلشي، و هي اتعقدت نفسيا من اشي اسمو شباب، اتعقدت نفسيا من كلشي"
واختتم الكلام بان والدتها تعرف لكنها لم تفعل شيئا لتفادي تلطيخ اسم العائلة
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بعد ذلك بدات بتذكر الكثير من القصص التي سمعتها من معلمات و مديرات في مدارس حكومية و مدارس الانروا، فبالاضافة للاهانة الجسدية و الضرب و السلخ بالعصا وتكسير العظام التي يعاني منها الكثير من الطلاب و الطالبات من اهاليهم، فان بعض الطالبات تقوم بوصف ممارسات جنسية بكل التفاصيل و تصف الاعضاء التناسلية و الالفاظ النابية ... الخ، واذا ما وصل الامر للمديرة و قامت بتحقيق بسيط فالنتيجة غالبا ان احد اقارب البنت كالخال الرزين او العم الودود او الاخ الشقيق و احيانا الاب او الجد و ربما الدكنجي او عامل النظافة او الجار ..... و بغض النظر عن الوحش الذي يقوم بالفعلة فانه ينهيها بالتهديد و التذكير بالعقاب المرعب التي ستناله الطفلة او الطفل اذا فتحوا ثمهم باللي صار
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و لكن حتى لو انخرست الطفلة فهنالك ثلاثة امور لا تخفى حسب المثل ، واهمها الحمل. و لن انس اخصائي النسائية و التوليد في مدينة خارج عمان حين اخبرنا عن اجهاض طفلة في الثالثة عشرة حملت من عمها، و قام باجهاضها وسط طلب و تهديد من والدها بالطبطبة على الموضوع عشان الفضايح
هسا بتحدى واحد يقنعني انو هاي البنت مش راح تطلع مريضة نفسيا؟؟____________________________________________
هاي قصة سمعتها من شابين في كلية الامير فيصل العسكرية في عمان، حيث الدراسة تستمر من صف اول لعاشر. و يقول لي الشابان اللذان درسا هناك قبل نحو عقد من الزمن ان كلا من طلاب الصف العاشر يتخذ من احد اولاد الابتدائي صديقا له، والصديق هنا تعني طفلا يقوم بممارسة اللواط معه في المدرسة. و الكثير من هؤلاء الطلاب الكبار لم يكن فعليا بممارسة الجنس مع الطفل لكنه كان يتوجب عليه ان يعين طفلا معينا و يدعي انه كان يمارس اللواط معه، حتى لا يقترب من ذلك الطفل احد اخر. لكن ممارسة اللواط مع طفل في العاشرة كان مدعاة للفخر هناك ....
بديش احط بذمتي لكنه بدا لي ان القصة واقعية للغاية، وبما انها حدثت في الماضي اتمنى ان تكون ادارة المرسة قد انتبهت لما حصل في حماماتها ووضعت حدا لها .
وما يحصل في الكثير من المدارس الحكومية مش احسن، و اذا ما زرت مدرسة حكومية و لقيت حمام الذكور مسكر فغالبا هناك سبب بسيط جدا و حاول احزر شو هو بناء على ما ذكر اعلاه، واللي مش مصدق انه في حمامات بتتسكر في مدارس حكومية خليه يسال بالاول
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اكثر ما يدر الاموال على اطباء السائية في الاردن نوعان من العمليات ، الاجهاض و اصلاح غشاء البكارة او ما يسمى بالعامي صب
الطوب، و عدد لا باس به من زبائن هؤلاء الاطباء من المراهقات .... كيف فقدوا بكارتهم و كيف صاروا حامل ؟؟
في الغرب نسمع كثيرا بالمراهقات حين يحبلن و رغم وجود اعتدائات جنسية كثيرة هناك الا انه غالبا ما يكون الاب مراهقا ايضا يكبرها بعام او اتنين لكن في الاردن الوضع مختلف تماما يعني البنت ما بتطلع الا من البيت لمدرسة بنات ثم عودة الى البيت و الذكور الوحيدون الذين تختلط بهم هم الاقارب
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اللي بدو يعرف اكثر عن هالبلاوي ما الو الا يسال و بلاقي جواب، و مهما يبدو من كلامي انه فيه مبالغة لكن لكن القصص اللي بنسمعها بتوقف الشعر، من المنطق الاعتقاد ان عددها اكبر بكثير من المتخيل لكن احدا لا يبلغ عنها و ذلك حفاظا على شرف العائلة، والوحيد الذي يستحق العقاب على تلطيخ شرف العائلة هو الفتاة التي احتست القهوة مع شاب في كوفي شوب حيث يقوم ايه زلمة في العائلة والتاء في زلمة هنا هي تاء التانيث يقوم بجز رقبتها حفاظا على سمعة العائلة ، رغم انه ثبت في احدى حالات جرائم القرف ان الضحية كانت فتاة قام اخوها باغتصابها و حملت منه و قام هو بقتلها مدعيا انها كانت تقوم باعمال مشينة
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ساتوقف عن الكلام هنا لاني لا اريد ان انشر المزيد من غسيلنا الوسخ لان البعض قد يتهمني بالخيانة العظمى.. لكن في شغلات كتير غلط بالبلد و ما بدنا جيل يطلع كله عقد نفسية اكثر مما هو متعقد
حريقة

25 comments:

Hareega said...

Actually many of my threads should be rated R but i added this here to attarct more visitors!!

salam said...

Fares,the parents are sometimes to be blamed.I heard about a couple who did not have a maid at home to stay with kids ,but they used to go out often at night.Where did they leave their six year old daughter till they came back? with the building's janitor(guard),in his room,on his bed!!!!!till they picked her up after they finish their lovely evening.I personally thought it's very hard to believe but the friend who told me that swore it's true and swore that they come from a very well known family.

Maijaury said...

Truthfully, Hazzait badanai..
There are alot of sick people in this world, and alot of such stories happen all around. But maybe our problem is admitting they do happen in our own country. It is hard for a conservative society who believes they are very much different than "ilgharb" to admit such problems. We hide under the umbrella of Islam convinced we are 'safe'. I wish there were more belivers than Muslims.

bassel said...

7aab te3raf leish..le2nnu 3enna..w fe be3d el duwal el"7alyjieh"...elnaas bte7ke 3an 3erd el naas zay ka2nnu shy2 3ady..but when it comes to them..all is forbidden..it's a problem with the community and with the local city leaders of these places in denying these facts, which " bezeed el 6een balleh"

hamede said...

Sad but true.

PALFORCE said...

Salam,

Child abuse is such an important issue and there are international efforts to raise awareness to this issue.

Your post is brave and my only wish that: I wish it was in egnlish.

Peace

Abu 7amarneh said...

fuck man,,, why? why? why this is happening? why people cant be fuckin straight? CHILDREN!! that sux

Hareega said...

salam yes parents should be aware of this problem, but sometimes it gets beyond belief. For example one might think it's safe to leave a 6-year old kid with his grandfather but that turned out to be dangerous sometimes!! but the example you've mentioned is an extreme, my guess is that the parents were so naiive.

maijuary... our society is not really aware of these incidents unlike the West where these crimes happen freuquently but people are aware of them and try to fight them. We keep denying them and nobody want to do anything about it.

bassel, il khaleej is a totally different story, child molestation a disaster over there!

Palforce, i express myself better in Arabic! Unfortunately most efforts are international, very few is national

Khalidah said...

Thank you for this great brave post Hareega ..

Women prisons in Jordan are filled with girls and women who were molested and attacked by their own family members .. so the government resorted to this solution to protect them from being murdered after they have been raped or molested ...

I always say that honorable people resort to many solutions and they don't murder others in the name of honor .. but since those who commit the honor crimes are anything but honorable .. we can expect anything ..

The problem is in ignorance .. these things are taking place every day .. and the taboo culture is doing more damage and harm than good .. parents never discuss these things with their children because they fear to open their eyes to adult stuff .. but they negelct the huge possibility that someone else might do just that in the ugliest way .. and we end up with a troubled person that will only do it to others as if it was the normal thing ..

Morals are weak .. religion does not solve it because they don't understand it .. culture supports ignorance and the victim is the innocent children ..

I salute you for talking about this issue because not talking will not solve anything .. on the contrary .. your words will open eyes to a need that every one must understand .. and that is to teach people and show them how to differentiate between right and wrong .. and how to deal with situations when they are subjected to them ...

I could go one for ever ... sorry for the long comment :)

wedad said...

msh tabi3i shu 3am beseer, yesterday i watched oprah show, kan elmawdu3 nafs elshi!! even she brought two girls have same dady imagine!!!!!!! the mother was 14 when she get her daughter!!
really 7aram bs rabna ysa3edhom u inshala nkun shuai open minded u ne7ki and put these kids fi ma7alat sa7 yeshteglo 3ala 7alhom!
thnx for sharing this its totally true coz i faced haik situations in my summer camps with "heart of mercy" bejjebo haik wlad u min manate2 kteer fi amman and we do a camp for them, bs enta law tesma3 their stories wala ishi min hada el7aki kaman... iam happy that iam helping those kids.

Bo3Bo3 said...

wallah ya abu narah manta galeel.

true dude, and typically, what you hear about is a small fractions of what is actually happining out there.

Hareega said...

Khalidah, we can go for days talking about that. The problem is not only that these things are happening, but what is worse... people do not admit that there is a problem. Some of these offenders brag about raping a kid. how sick can that be?

Hareega said...

wedad strong work hopefully you'll make a difference in the lives of these kids, they can be become totally destroyed from such incidents.

bo3bo3 ba3jebak ya zalameh :D zaman 3annak walla

manar said...

i heared such stories from my own friends... i think that has sth to do with our community forbidding the realtions between gyuz and gilrs even if its innocent..so they dnt get their own image and coulored drems abt a better future,and all they have is that dark image abt sex and being a wife or a husband...
hareega... u r hareega!
luv...

afaq zraikat said...

I just want to commend you on your efforts and bravery to speak out. many people, especially guys, in our society would dismiss things like child abuse as 'untrue' and 'fabricated' just to escape the reality. we need more outspoken people about such an issue, particularly men since our society is male dominated and thus the control is really in their hands.
God bless
afaq

Hareega said...

manar... i don't really think it's related to our community being very conservative. These things occur a lot in america too. A man might be able to be with many women but he choose a child. This is a disease,,,, these people are just ill-minded

afaq... thank you for reading it. I hope one day people will recognize that there's a problem. We cannnot solve a problem without admitting there is one, and people are still in denial!

Omernos said...

Oh My God,
that was a total jaw dropper -- I still have my jaw dropped actually!

What you've said there 3anjadd ishee bewaggef sha3ar el raas, and it's the damn mutated ugly truth. OMG, I am still in major shock -- Ya3nee...Allah yeb3ed wladna men heik gosas! I am so sick worried if this still happens in school. And fuckin' no nobody should stay hand-folded to this...

At least sawweat ishee ya 7areega,
3anjadd bahn2ak 3ala your courage to surface this awful issue!!!

omar

nano1120 said...

Ba7eb ashkorak 3ala haljor2a..

ana men zaman ba3raf w basma3 3an heik eshi l2anno a'7oi fe saf tase3 dayman byeji w bye7keli lamma yeser belmadraseh hek eshi.. bas la eledarah wala elshor6a wala 7ada bya3mel eshi..

H@ss@N said...

hey man
fee hala2 be 3aman eshe esmo 7emayet il osra, joz2 men il shorr6a bas independant, o bestoro 3al nas, eno no fadaye7, bas il problem in our cultur, ya3ne 105% of the girls i know, beskoto eza 7ad t7arash fehom, o they say ma bedna mashakel or ba5af a7ke la5wane yetmashkalo.....
i wonder how can we change this

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